Say           to a sex life you are head over heels for.

Your guide to great sex in the first decade of marriage. The Newlywed Course will help you address your challenges together and build the kind of sexual relationship you both want.



- newlywed course participant

My husband and I have been married for 7 years. I suggested we invest into The Newlywed Course as an investment for our marriage. Our sex is better than ever and I can even say I do NOT suffer from low libido but I didn't realize that until taking this course. Thanks!

Worth. Every. Penny.

You married the love of your life... 

You and your spouse don't want sex the same amount or at the same time. It's a pain point.

Life is busy and you are both exhausted. You are often too tired to try and engage with your spouse. 

You've tried all you know to do, but sex still isn't as pleasurable as you want it to be.  

You want to feel excited about sex like you were earlier in your relationship, but you aren't sure how!





But your sex life isn't all that you hoped it would be. 


And that includes me and my husband. Even with all of the education that I had attained (I had received my master's, focused on healthy sexuality) and all of our preparation, the transition into sexual activity was bumpy for us. We were glad that we had waited for marriage, but we were honestly disappointed by sex at first. I have since spent thousands more hours studying how to address challenges within a sexual relationship in healthy and productive ways. 

You aren't alone. Most couples struggle in some aspect of their sex life. 

Not only am I absolutely in love with the sexual relationship in my marriage, but I now help couples to get to the same point.

You know what?

So, if you're in love with your spouse but not quite in love with your sex life...

you're in the right place.

Your New Sex Life BFF


The perfect way to improve your sexual relationship together. All the questions you have about positions, vibrators, and desire? You'll find the answers here. The excitement and passion you're looking for in your sex life? Yeah, that's here too. 

Inside of module one, you will learn the key components of a healthy sexual relationship. You might have some negative or unhealthy beliefs and patterns in your sexual relationship. This module will help you to identify and replace them. 

You were really hoping that the two of you would want sex the same amount but... you definitely don't. In module two you will learn what determines sexual desire, how to increase it, and how to navigate differences in desire as a couple. 

Here's What You'll Learn

Establishing a Healthy Foundation

Navigating Sexual Desire



You've been wanting to explore new things as a couple, you just aren't actually sure what exactly to explore. This module is packed with ideas and resources to help you get the passion and excitement back in your sex life.

Exploring New Things Together


This module is everything you've been needing in terms of understanding orgasms and loving on your spouse in new and pleasurable ways. You want to make your spouse feel good during sex. Well, here's how.

Increasing Sexual Pleasure



1. Intermediate Sex Positions Guide 
2. A Beginner's Guide to Vibrators 
3. Pleasure for Her Guide
4. Pleasure for Him Guide

Resources for Better Sex

BONUS Content


Couples enrolled in this course


times I have happy cried about that


Months since the course launch


Hours of video content + guides

- newlywed course participant

This course is absolutely fantastic! Carlie was clear, detailed, and fun. This is EVERYTHING you ever needed or wanted to know about sex.


What makes This Content different?

Honest to a Fault

One of the challenges we face as Christians is finding sex education that isn't vague or focused almost exclusively on emotional connection. Here, we talk about all of the things. No topic is off limits. If anything, I will overshare.

The Sweatpants of Sex Ed

I have very purposefully created these courses to feel fun, comfortable, and relatable. If you're hoping for a stuffy conference room vibe, you will not find it here. I want you to feel like you're learning from a good friend.

Shame not included

Unfortunately, many well-meaning teachers, leaders, and educators use shame to push abstinence. You will find exactly none of that here. This is a space to learn, not to be shamed into obedience. Everyone is welcome.

How It Works

Purchase the fully online course and gain access for as long as the course is sold.

Purchase the Course

Watch the course as a couple whenever works for you. Move at your own pace.


Implement the things you learn in the course for better, more pleasurable sex.


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Nine monthly payments of $49

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One payment of $397

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The Ultimate Bundle—
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Sexuality for Singles + The Honeymoon Course

The Honeymoon Course + The Newlywed Course



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"Carlie has put in so much research for this course and her sincere passion really shows through. It is loaded with knowledge and facts. Our marriage has improved in many aspects thanks to this course!"

- newlywed course participant

we donate

$15 from every course purchase to charity.

We are currently donating $15 from every purchase of The Newlywed Course to The National Black Doulas Association, an organization that is working to decrease the pregnancy-related mortality rate for BIPOC women through doula services. 


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It's me, your hype squad.

Are you curious about the qualifications of the person who created this course (ahem... yours truly)? Click below to learn more about my background and why The Newlywed Course exists.

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Something that you look forward to as a couple

Incredibly pleasurable for both you and your spouse

A part of your marriage that creates joy, not frustration

Exciting and passionate, even after several years

Full of love, generosity, kindness, and respect

the newlywed course is for you!

If you want to create a sexual relationship that is... 


Try the course for 30 days. Get your money back if it didn’t serve you.

Yup, you read that right. If you go through at least 50% of The Newlywed Course and don't feel it has been helpful for you, I will refund you the full price of the course. I want you to LOVE what I offer. And, if you don't, I've got your back. No hard feelings.

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This course is for you if:

You're within ~10 years of marriage

You're unable to commit the time

Your sex life is not what you want

You love every part of your sex Life

You feel unsure about improving it

It's probably not for you if...

You don't want to make sex a priority

Let's Do This Thing!


select the plan that works for you:

Five monthly payments of $85

enroll now

Nine monthly payments of $49

enroll now

One payment of $397

enroll now

best value

Do you want to purchase The Newlywed Course as a gift?

purchase a
COURSE gift card

When is the best time to take The Newlywed Course? 

The Newlywed Course can be used by couples in their first few months of marriage or by those that are several years and even several kids into their marriage.


Would you recommend it if one of us isn't interested in taking the course?

Ideally, The Newlywed Course will be taken as a couple. Of course it can still be helpful for one of you to take it, but sex is a team effort and so is improving it. 

I don't live in the United States. Can I still take the course? 

Of course! The course is housed on a website called Kajabi. As long as you can access that website (it is available worldwide, with few exceptions), you're golden! 

Can I buy The Newlywed Course for someone as a gift? 

Yes! It makes a wonderful gift, if I do say so myself. When you make the purchase, just enter the receiver's email address instead of your own. This will give them full access to the course. 

If I purchase it, can I share the course with friends or family?

Your purchase of The Newlywed Course can only be used by you and your spouse. If another couple wants to access it, they will need to purchase it as well. 

Who would you recommend not take The Newlywed Course?

The Newlywed Course is not a replacement for therapy, especially in cases of sexual trauma or abuse. If you have or are experiencing this, please seek professional help.

I've been married longer than 10 years, can I still take it? 

Yes, of course! There are things that older couples face that won't be covered in the course (e.g., effects of aging on sex), but it will still be extremely helpful for you. 

I am in a LGBTQ+ relationship. Is this course a good fit for me? 

You are, of course, welcome to take the course! Some of it will be very useful for you. However, my professional and personal experience qualify me to teach heterosexual couples, which are the primary focus in the course. You deserve to learn from an expert in LGBTQ+ relationships. 

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