You married the love of your life...
You and your spouse don't want sex the same amount or at the same time. It's a pain point.
Life is busy and you are both exhausted. You are often too tired to try and engage with your spouse.
You've tried all you know to do, but sex still isn't as pleasurable as you want it to be.
You want to feel excited about sex like you were earlier in your relationship, but you aren't sure how!
But your sex life isn't all that you hoped it would be.
YOU married THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE...
And that includes me and my husband. Even with all of the education that I had attained (I had received my master's, focused on healthy sexuality) and all of our preparation, the transition into sexual activity was bumpy for us. We were glad that we had waited for marriage, but we were honestly disappointed by sex at first. I have since spent thousands more hours studying how to address challenges within a sexual relationship in healthy and productive ways.
Not only am I absolutely in love with the sexual relationship in my marriage now, but I now help couples to get to the same point.
So, if you're in love with your spouse but not quite in love with your sex life...
you're in the right place.
The perfect way to improve your sexual relationship together. All the questions you have about positions, vibrators, and desire? You'll find the answers here. The excitement and passion you're looking for in your sex life? Yeah, that's here too.
Inside of module one, you will learn the key components of a healthy sexual relationship. You might have some negative or unhealthy beliefs and patterns in your sexual relationship. This module will help you to identify and replace them.
You were really hoping that the two of you would want sex the same amount but... you definitely don't. In module two you will learn what determines sexual desire, how to increase it, and how to navigate differences in desire as a couple.
You've been wanting to explore new things as a couple, you just aren't actually sure what exactly to explore. This module is packed with ideas and resources to help you get the passion and excitement back in your sex life.
This module is everything you've been needing in terms of understanding orgasms and loving on your spouse in new and pleasurable ways. You want to make your spouse feel good during sex. Well, here's how.
LET'S BREAK it DOWN
1. Intermediate Sex Positions Guide
2. A Beginner's Guide to Vibrators
3. Pleasure for Her Guide
4. Pleasure for Him Guide
What makes This Content different?
One of the challenges we face as Christians is finding sex education that isn't vague or focused almost exclusively on emotional connection. Here, we talk about all of the things. No topic is off limits. If anything, I will overshare.
I have very purposefully created these courses to feel fun, comfortable, and relatable. If you're hoping for a stuffy conference room vibe, you will not find it here. I want you to feel like you're learning from a good friend.
Unfortunately, many well-meaning teachers, leaders, and educators use shame to push abstinence. You will find exactly none of that here. This is a space to learn, not to be shamed into obedience. Everyone is welcome.
Purchase the fully online course and gain access for as long as the course is sold.
Watch the course as a couple whenever works for you. Move at your own pace.
Implement the things you learn in the course for better, more pleasurable sex.
"Carlie has put in so much research for this course and her sincere passion really shows through. It is loaded with knowledge and facts. Our marriage has improved in many aspects thanks to this course!"
We will donate
We are currently donating $15 from every purchase of The Newlywed Course to The National Black Doulas Association, an organization that is working to decrease the pregnancy-related mortality rate for BIPOC women through doula services.
It's me, your hype squad.
Are you curious about the qualifications of the person who created this course (ahem... yours truly)? Click below to learn more about my background and why The Newlywed Course exists.
Something that you look forward to as a couple
Incredibly pleasurable for both you and your spouse
A part of your marriage that creates joy, not frustration
Exciting and passionate, even after several years
Full of love, generosity, kindness, and respect
The Newlywed Course is for you!
Yup, you read that right. If you go through at least 50% of The Newlywed Course and don't feel it has been helpful for you, I will refund you the full price of the course. I want you to LOVE what I offer. And, if you don't, I've got your back. No hard feelings.
The Newlywed Course can be used by couples in their first few months of marriage or by those that are several years and even several kids into their marriage.
Ideally, The Newlywed Course will be taken as a couple. Of course it can still be helpful for one of you to take it, but sex is a team effort and so is improving it.
Of course! The course is housed on a website called Kajabi. As long as you can access that website (it is available worldwide, with few exceptions), you're golden!
Yes! It makes a wonderful gift, if I do say so myself. When you make the purchase, just enter the receiver's email address instead of your own. This will give them full access to the course.
Your purchase of The Newlywed Course can only be used by you and your spouse. If another couple wants to access it, they will need to purchase it as well.
The Newlywed Course is not a replacement for therapy, especially in cases of sexual trauma or abuse. If you have or are experiencing this, please seek professional help.
Yes, of course! There are things that older couples face that won't be covered in the course (e.g., effects of aging on sex), but it will still be extremely helpful for you.
You are, of course, welcome to take the course! Some of it will be very useful for you. However, my professional and personal experience qualify me to teach heterosexual couples, which are the primary focus in the course. You deserve to learn from an expert in LGBTQ+ relationships.