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A sexuality researcher and educator, here to help you prepare for and build sexual relationships worth all the hype. 

want to DRASTICALLY improve sex in your marriage?

Say hello to your step-by-step guide.

The Pleasure Playbook is an in-depth PDF guidebook to help you increase pleasure (for her & for him) through manual, oral, and penetrative sex. This is the "how-to" guide that every Christian couple needs to make sex great.

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The Pleasure Playbook

"The Pleasure Playbook is everything I've wanted to know but was too afraid to Google. It is incredibly helpful and straightforward.
I feel like every couple should read this."

— Married 4 Years

You might be FEELING like...

Sex just isn't as enjoyable as you want it to be.

You enjoy being close to your spouse, but sex doesn't feel exciting and playful anymore. You want to look forward to it!

You're not sure what to try when it comes to sex.

You feel ready to try out some new things, but where do you even start? You don't know where to find reliable, tasteful information.

You want information that aligns with your values.

Googling "how to" info feels intimidating and risky. You want clear, instructive information, but nothing graphic or crude.

How does this sound?

THE RESULTS

01

Immediately level-up your sexual confidence in the bedroom

02

Become an expert in your spouse's pleasure (they will love this)

03

Increase your desire for sex and your desire to be together

04

Learn to navigate different preferences with compassion

05

Make your time in the bedroom fun again (or for the first time)

What's included in the playbook?

  • Over 100 pages of detailed, tasteful instruction for improving sex
  • More than 40 techniques to consider exploring as a couple (for manual, oral, and penetrative sex)
  • Detailed instructions for creating pleasure with each technique
  • More than 20 positions, including instructions for which positions work best for each technique
  • Tasteful, instructive graphics for techniques, positions, and anatomy
  • Guidelines for introducing new things in healthy, comfortable ways

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Click the button below to download a handful of pages from the guide, including a detailed Table of Contents. 

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"This is a must! I have been married for 11 years and this has all the information I have ever wanted to look up but was too embarrassed to do so. It was detailed but written in a way that does not feel intimidating." 

— Married 11 Years

FAQS

I'm worried this will be too graphic for me. What does it include?

I can absolutely understand that concern. I have carefully crafted The Pleasure Playbook to be informative and detailed, but incredibly tasteful and never crude. It does include male and female anatomy diagrams and sex position diagrams. All of the diagrams are illustrations and the positions are depicted using simple line-drawing style sketches. If you would like to see a sneak peek of the guide, which includes diagram examples, click the button right above the FAQ section.

Is this a guide for newlyweds or for more experienced lovers? 

Both! There are couples who have been married for less than a year and couples who have been married for decades who are LOVING this resource. If you feel any desire to learn new things, increase the pleasure that you and your spouse experience with sex, and experience more joy and connection in your sex life, then this guide was made for you.   

If I purchase it, can I share the guide with friends or family members?

I know you want to share things that you love (which I definitely hope is how you feel about the guide). However, each purchase of the guide can only be used by one couple. I have done my best to price the guide to be accessible to as many couples as possible. Please do not share the PDF or print copies with anyone besides your partner. Thanks so much!

Are there techniques or positions that go against Christian values?

This guidebook is written specifically for married Christian couples. There are some individuals who believe that certain sexual techniques and positions are "off-limits" for Christians. What I want you to understand is that those beliefs are opinions and nothing more. It is up to each couple to decide what things will be included in their sexual relationship. If you don't want to implement everything in the guidebook, that's just fine! But the choice it completely up to you (your pastor doesn't get an opinion).

Can I print the guide? Or can I only access it digitally? 

The Pleasure Playbook is a digital guidebook. Once you purchase the PDF, however, it is yours to use however you would like. Feel free to have it printed (and bound, if you're feeling fancy) if you would like to have a hard copy. As long as you do not share the guide with others, you are welcome to download it and/or print it as many times as you would like. 

I am in a LGBTQ+ relationship. Is this course a good fit for me?

You are, of course, more than welcome to use The Pleasure Playbook! Some of it will be very useful for you. However, my professional experience and personal relationship qualify me to teach heterosexual couples, which are the primary focus in this resource. You deserve to learn from an expert in LGBTQ+ relationships.

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What are your qualifications to write this guide? 

I earned a bachelor's degree in Human Development and a master's degree in Marriage, Family, & Human Development with a research emphasis on healthy sexual relationships. I am a sex educator and researcher who has spent thousands of hours studying how to build healthy, happy sexual relationships in marriage. And, I'm a Christian who cares deeply about providing couples with helpful, detailed information that aligns with their values and priorities. 

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Hi, I'm Carlie, Your BFF + New Sex Ed Guide

I earned a master's degree in Marriage, Family, and Human Development (Healthy Sexuality emphasis) and have worked for over five years as a sexuality research ALL to become the expert that you (and your kiddos) need right now.

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